Feng Shui: 8 false myths it’s time to let go of

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There are many false myths circulating about Feng Shui; so if hearing about it sparks a mix of curiosity and skepticism, know that this is completely normal.

Feng Shui is an ancient, deep, and fascinating discipline.

And yet, in recent years, it has often been oversimplified, misinterpreted, and reshaped through a Western lens—reduced to a rigid list of rules or a collection of “magical” objects to place here and there.

The result?

A discipline that was born to help you feel better in your home ends up creating confusion, rigidity, or even anxiety.

In reality, Feng Shui is the study of places and people.

It’s a way of inhabiting space that is coherent with who we are.

In today’s article, I aim to bring clarity by guiding you through the most common Feng Shui myths, explaining why they don’t work—and, most importantly, what does work when it comes to creating spaces that support you, nourish you, and truly reflect who you are.

– Myth #1: Feng Shui is a rigid set of rules you must follow exactly

“You can’t do that.”

“That brings negative energy.”

“That’s always wrong.”

Unfortunately, these phrases are very common—and understandably make Feng Shui feel heavy, complicated, or even punitive.

They turn a tool for harmony into a test you feel you have to pass.

And they make people feel “wrong” for living in real homes, with real limits, compromises, and practical choices.

The truth is that Feng Shui is not a universal rulebook that applies to everyone in the same way.

It’s a method of observation and listening—and above all, it is deeply personalized.

Every home is different.

But even more importantly, every person is different, with their own energy, history, and life phase.

The same house will be arranged very differently depending on who lives there—even when using Feng Shui—because it’s not the walls that lead the way, but the person.

In this sense, I find a strong affinity with Reiki: energy flows where it’s needed, not where a manual says it “should” go.

Feng Shui helps you understand what’s happening in a space and how that space affects you.

It’s not about telling you what’s “wrong.”

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– Myth #2: If your bed isn’t perfectly oriented, you won’t sleep well

This myth often goes hand in hand with the idea that “the bed must have the headboard facing North,” and it’s one of the beliefs that creates the most anxiety.

As mentioned earlier, even the ideal position of a bed depends on the person and on how their energy interacts with the energy of the home.

The same person might have one ideal orientation in one house, and a completely different one in another.

Without going into technical details, this rule—when taken out of context—becomes an unnecessary dogma that ignores the reality of how we actually live.

Not every bedroom allows for the “ideal” position.

There are windows, doors, walls, small spaces, and practical needs to consider.

True Feng Shui is flexible.

It adapts to reality instead of forcing it.

What matters most is how you feel in that spot.

If you feel relaxed, protected, and comfortable, then it works—even if it’s not “perfect.”

And even when the only possible position creates some discomfort, know that there are many ways to harmonize the space using colors, materials, and objects.

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– Myth #3: Mirrors are almost always negative

“No mirrors in the entryway—and definitely none in the bedroom!”

I’ve heard this so many times.

Once again, without context, this idea becomes misleading.

In Feng Shui, mirrors don’t have a moral value.

They’re not “good” or “bad.”

Mirrors amplify what they reflect.

So the right question isn’t: Is the mirror okay or not?

It’s: What does it reflect? How does it make you feel?

Does it increase light and openness—or disturbance and confusion?

A mirror reflecting natural light or an orderly space can be a great ally.

One that makes you uncomfortable or reflects chaos isn’t right for that spot.

When it comes specifically to bedrooms and entryways, a few simple guidelines help:

  • In the bedroom, mirrors are fine, but they shouldn’t reflect people while they sleep, as energy keeps bouncing back and forth and may disturb rest.
  • In the entryway, a mirror shouldn’t face the door directly, or the energy will bounce back out instead of entering.

That said, in your bedroom, if you can’t change the mirror’s position and you sleep well anyway, there’s no problem.

If you don’t sleep well, you can always partially cover it so it doesn’t reflect you while lying down.

In the entryway, if there’s no alternative position, try not to open the door completely.

This way, energy enters at an angle and is reflected into the rest of the space.

(If you like, here I’m talking about an entryway with Feng Shui)

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– Myth #4: If you can’t apply everything, then Feng Shui is useless

This myth is subtle but very common.

“If I can’t do it properly, then there’s no point in doing it at all.”

This mindset frames Feng Shui as something elitist—accessible only to those who can change everything.

In reality, Feng Shui works especially in small steps.

Sometimes it’s enough to change one thing: a color, the position of an element, a more conscious choice, or a different quality of attention to a space you use every day.

You don’t need to do everything at once.

What matters is starting.

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– Myth #5: Feng Shui is only symbolic or “spiritual”

When people think about Feng Shui, they often imagine symbolic objects placed around the house to attract luck or love.

But placing a golden turtle, a crystal, or some exotic symbol won’t magically bring abundance, love, or fortune.

Feng Shui is not magic, and it’s not superstition.

Objects can act as activators—but only within the right context.

You can place a Pachira aquatica (also known as the money tree), but it won’t help if your home is cluttered, doesn’t reflect who you are, and doesn’t allow you to recharge your energy.

Feng Shui works first and foremost with very practical elements:

  • light
  • furniture layout
  • order
  • movement flow
  • spatial perception

It’s deeply connected to interior design and to how the body and mind respond to environments.

The symbolic layer, when present, comes later—to amplify intention—only after the space has been cleared and allowed to breathe.

(credits Canva)

– Myth #6: Feng Shui is just about aesthetics

This myth is closely related to the previous point: many people believe that Feng Shui is an Eastern interior design.

And yes, aesthetics matter.

Beauty is energy, and a harmonious environment feels welcoming and warm.

But Feng Shui goes beyond the surface.

It’s about how you feel when you enter a room.

About your breath, your vitality, your ability to rest, create, and love.

Be mindful of “magazine-perfect” rooms: they may be beautiful, but energetically useless if they don’t make you feel good.

Feng Shui doesn’t stop at what you see—it goes deeper, into what you perceive.

That’s why you don’t need a perfect home.

You need a lived-in home—one that’s listened to, observed with fresh eyes, and felt with the heart.

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– Myth #7: You only need to apply the Bagua you find online

The Bagua is an octagonal energy map where each section represents an area of life: prosperity, recognition, love, creativity, leadership, life purpose, rest, and roots.

When placed over a floor plan—or even just a room—it helps assess balance, support weaker areas, soften overly strong ones, and strengthen what you need most in a specific life phase.

For this reason, the Bagua is a powerful tool—but also one of the most misunderstood and oversimplified.

Many websites offer simplified versions disconnected from traditional practice, leading people to apply generic maps to their homes.

There are also key factors to consider when placing the Bagua correctly, such as the actual entrance and the energetic center of the home, which isn’t always obvious.

Ignoring these aspects can activate the wrong areas altogether.

It’s a bit like trying to navigate a city using a map of a different city.

It simply doesn’t work.

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– Myth #8: Feng Shui is just a trend

With the growing popularity of Eastern practices in the West, Feng Shui people often treat Feng Shui as a mere trend.

This mindset reduces a millennia-old body of knowledge to a decorative or fashionable phenomenon.

The truth is that Feng Shui is over 5,000 years old.

It has survived because it works—it supports life, energy, and our relationship with space.

It’s not magical.

It’s deeply human.

Yes, it developed within a different culture and building tradition, but with the right awareness, we can apply it to our homes as well.

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– What Really Works in Feng Shui

  • Awareness: observing how you live in your spaces
  • Qi flow: creating movement, openness, and breath
  • Intention: bringing presence to your choices
  • Harmony between you and your home: there is no Feng Shui without listening
  • Energetic connection: as in Reiki, energy follows your vibration

Feng Shui isn’t a set of rules.

It’s a journey.

A way of coming home—inside and out.

It’s a tool that helps you create spaces that support your everyday life.

Spaces that make you feel more centered, calmer, and truly at home.

This principle is always true—even in imperfect homes.

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– A Final Thought

When we let go of myths, Feng Shui returns to what it has always been:

a practice that connects energy, space, and life.

A home isn’t just a container—it’s an energetic field that accompanies, supports, and reflects you.

When this field is in harmony, everything else begins to flow.

If you feel your home could support you better, but don’t know where to start, remember: you don’t need a revolution.

The right home isn’t the perfect one.

It’s the one that takes care of you.

Sometimes, all it takes is a shift in perspective.

If you’d like, we can do that together.

Write to me—I’d be honored to guide you on this journey.

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Why interior design comes before renovation (even when you’re not renovating)

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Why should you always start with interior design? Let’s talk about it.

When we think about renovating a home, our minds usually jump straight to knocking down walls, choosing new flooring, or updating systems and utilities.

All of that matters, of course.

But there’s one crucial step that’s often overlooked—or considered too late—and it’s the one that truly makes the difference between a home that looks good and one that actually works: interior design.

Interior design is not just about style or color choices.

It’s about planning spaces that support daily life and everyday routines.

This approach applies whether you’re renovating or not.

Furnishing a home doesn’t mean simply “filling” rooms.

It means giving them purpose, balance, and intention.

– Where to really start with interior design, before renovating

Before thinking about style, colors, or materials, there’s one key question to ask yourself: how do I want to live in this home?

Each room deserves careful, individual consideration, starting with its primary function.

Once that’s clear, the next step is to be functional: make a list of the furniture pieces that are actually essential for that function.

Of course, a room can have more than one purpose.

A living room, for example, might also include a dining area or a small home office.

Still, there is usually one primary function, and everything else naturally revolves around it.

Let’s look at an example.

If you primarily use your living room to relax, the focus should be on a comfortable (possibly generous) sofa, a TV unit, and a well-designed circulation space.

I also suggest thinking about additional seating to encourage conversation when guests are over.

If the same space includes a dining area or a study corner, those zones should be designed and proportioned in relation to the principal function.

On the other hand, if you primarily use your living room for lunches and dinners with family and friends, then the table and comfortable chairs become the priority, and everything else comes second.

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Once you complete this step, you move into one of the most valuable phases of the process: testing furniture layouts, even if only through a floor plan.

That’s when the magic happens.

Seeing real dimensions and clearances is the only way to understand whether a partition wall truly needs to be removed, slightly shifted, or opened to create a passage.

Without this overall vision, there’s a real risk of making structural decisions that don’t support everyday life.

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– You don’t need to know the style right away (and that’s ok)

Here’s something that often reassures people: you don’t need to decide on a style, colors, or finishes right away.

At this stage, what matters most is where, not how.

Knowing where the sofa will go, where the bed fits best, and how much space you need to open a wardrobe or move comfortably around a table allows you to work with real dimensions.

And those dimensions are what help you make smart technical decisions later on.

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– Lighting and power outlets: decide before, not after

When the layout is clear, everything else becomes easier—and much more coherent.

Let’s talk about lighting.

A single central ceiling light is rarely the best solution on its own.

Each activity needs a different type of light: one for reading, one for cooking, and one for relaxing.

Only when you know where the furniture will be can you decide where to place light points, whether you need wall sconces, pendants, or spotlights, and where to plan floor and table lamps.

The same goes for electrical outlets.

Instead of placing them randomly “just in case” (with the risk that they are too far from where you need them or furniture hides them), you can position them exactly where they’ll be helpful.

This approach also allows you to place a sofa in the middle of the room—if that suits your lifestyle and your taste—paired with a floor lamp, without tripping over cables.

Because if you plan ahead, you can include a floor outlet.

And that’s the difference between a home shaped by compromises and one designed with intention.

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– Thinking in multiple layouts: a home that grows with you

When renovating, another interesting opportunity is to think about more than one possible layout.

Not to complicate things, but to leave room for flexibility.

Our lives change, and so does the way we use our homes.

Planning two possible furniture arrangements from the start allows you to reorganize spaces over time without invasive work.

This kind of planning is paramount for the electrical layout: even if you move furniture in the future, outlets will still be accessible.

It’s a clever and sustainable way to approach interior design.

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– Moodboards: when atmosphere comes into play

Only after defining functions, dimensions, and layouts does it make sense to focus on atmosphere.

That’s where the moodboard comes in.

It helps create an overall vision by combining feelings, materials, colors, and finishes.

It’s not the final project yet, but it helps guide your decisions and keeps everything aligned.

(Here I talk about how to create a moodboard)

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At this point, you can begin the actual renovation project with an architect, working with a clear plan.

The result? A home that truly works, not just one that looks good on paper.

– What if you’re not renovating?

All of this still applies even when you don’t have planned any structural work.

There may be fewer options, of course, but understanding the primary function of each room, listing essential furniture, defining minimum and maximum dimensions, and creating a moodboard helps avoid two common mistakes:

– rooms that feel overcrowded and suffocating, or, on the opposite end, empty and lacking character;

– spaces where furniture, accessories, and finishes don’t relate to each other.

To create a harmonious environment, the moodboard should build on existing elements such as flooring and interior doors.

You can enhance lighting by strategically using existing outlets, floor lamps, and table lamps to create layers that are both functional and welcoming.

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– A home designed before furnishing it.

The furniture plan is an integral part of interior design.

It’s not a final detail, but the foundation that supports every decision, big or small.

If you would like to clarify your ideas, organize your spaces more effectively, or approach a renovation with greater awareness, I am available for personalized consultations.

Sometimes, all it takes is starting with the right project to change the way you truly live in your home.

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Decorating with neutral colors: how to use them without creating flat spaces!

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How to use neutral colors the right way!

Some homes welcome you with calm and lightness, while others — even if they’re tidy and well-curated — feel a bit cold or impersonal.

Often, the issue isn’t the furniture or the accessories, but the way one works with neutral colors.

They’re powerful and delicate at the same time.

When used with intention, neutrals bring balance, elegance, and versatility.

Used without awareness, they can make a room feel flat and lack personality.

In this article, I’ll guide you step by step in choosing and combining neutral colors, enhancing them with materials, textures, and details, and transforming each room into a harmonious and enjoyable space.

(Here you can find how to recognize and choose the right neutrals!)

1 – Start with the basics: select your primary neutrals

Not all neutral colors are the same.

Beige, taupe, warm or cool grays, cream, and sand tones—each has its own character and energy.

Begin by choosing the base, the primary neutral that will appear throughout most of your space.

To determine which tone works best, observe the natural light in the room.

North-facing rooms, which are usually cooler, benefit from warm neutrals.

South-facing rooms, with stronger light, can support cool grays or slightly deeper tones.

Don’t forget to consider the existing elements: flooring, doors, window frames, and finishes.

Honey-colored wood enhances warm neutrals, while gray flooring pairs beautifully with cooler tones or more defined neutrals.

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2 – Play with shades

A completely beige or entirely gray room can easily feel flat.

The secret lies in mixing shades and adding a subtle contrast.

Layer different tones of the same neutral: light gray walls, medium-gray textiles, and charcoal accents create depth without making the space feel heavy.

Think of neutrals like a musical palette: the base is the main melody, and the shades are the notes that add movement and rhythm.

This way, the eye moves through the room without ever getting bored.

(credits: Canva; cocolapinedesign.com)

3 – Texture and materials: the key to a lively space

Neutrals alone might look cold, but pairing them with different materials brings the space to life.

Natural wood, linen, cotton, wool, stone, metal — every texture tells a story and adds visual interest.

A beige wool rug, a taupe linen sofa, and brass or copper details can turn a neutral living room into a warm and welcoming space.

Light also plays a significant role: glossy surfaces, mirrors, and metals reflect light, adding movement and preventing neutrals from looking monotonous.

(credits: behence.net; editionnoire.com)

4 – Add color accents

You don’t need bold colors everywhere — just a few well-chosen accents.

A coral object, a sage-green vase, or a navy-blue book can add character and guide the eye without disrupting the calmness of neutrals.

Remember: neutrals are the stage where accessories shine.

If everything is bright, nothing stands out; if everything is neutral, you need a few points of interest.

Accents, used thoughtfully, let you play with color while maintaining harmony.

(credits: Boxerjam; tlcinteriors.com.au)

5 – Keep consistency between rooms

A common mistake is treating each room as a separate world.

But your home is a visual journey that needs continuity.

Repeating a neutral from room to room — changing only its intensity or how you pair it with materials — creates flow and cohesion.

For example, a light gray in the living room can turn into a warmer greige in the bedroom, while accessories and textiles repeat the same tones.

Each room maintains its identity, yet the entire home speaks a harmonious language.

(credits: Canva)

6 – Light up and enhance neutrals

Lighting is essential when working with neutral colors.

Don’t rely on just a single ceiling lamp: use layered lighting — floor lamps, wall sconces, focused lights — to bring out the nuances of your neutrals.

If the room lacks natural light, compensate with reflective or lighter surfaces.

Strategic mirrors, glass elements, and glossy metals not only brighten the room but also add visual movement to softer neutrals.

(credits: Bronxes Studio; cocolapinedesign.com)

7 – Small mistakes to avoid

  • Too many similar neutrals: they make the space look flat. Mix warm and cool tones for more depth.
  • Neutrals without texture: if your sofa blends with the flooring, add rugs, cushions, and a mix of fabrics to create contrast.
  • Overlooking natural light: test your colors at different times of day to see how they truly behave.
  • No accents at all: even in a neutral space, a touch of color adds personality and visual interest.

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8 – Let your home tell your story

Neutral colors are the perfect base to highlight your personality through details and meaningful objects.

They make change smooth — you can evolve your home without feeling like you need to start all over again.

A special vase, a book you love, a painting, or a treasured object can bring energy into the space without overwhelming your palette.

Neutrals offer an elegant, versatile backdrop that brings out your story and creates calm, welcoming, deeply personal spaces.

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Conclusion

Neutral colors are never monotonous when used with awareness: paired with texture, materials, accents, and the proper lighting, they create elegant, harmonious, and personal spaces.

Starting with neutrals means building a solid — yet lively — foundation where details, accessories, and personality naturally stand out.

Your home won’t feel flat; it will feel warm, refined, and comforting — a place where you can sincerely feel good, every single day.

If you want personalized support in choosing and combining neutral colors, I can guide you with a tailored consultation. Together, we’ll find the perfect palette for your space and your energy.

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Finding your personal decorating style: your home as a mirror of your personality

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It’s vital to find your personal decorating style for a home that supports you!

Some homes tell a story the moment you walk in.

You don’t even need to notice the furniture or the colors — you can immediately sense a certain harmony, coherence, and energy that speaks of the people who live there.

Other homes, though carefully furnished, seem to lack something: the space feels “right,” yet not truly alive.

Finding your personal decorating style doesn’t mean copying a trend or labeling your taste as “boho,” “minimal,” or “classic.”

It means learning to listen to yourself and turning who you are into a visual and sensory language.

It’s a journey inward, not outward.

Start from who you are (not from what is in style)

It is the same story seen with colors: trends change — you do not.

Or rather, you evolve in a deeper, more meaningful way, not with the seasons.

That is why the authentic starting point for creating a home that represents you is yourself.

Ask yourself: How do I want to feel at home?

Do you need calm and lightness, or warmth and energy?

Do you enjoy orderly, symmetrical spaces, or do you feel more comfortable in lived-in, spontaneous ones full of character?

The answers are already within you — in the colors you wear, the textures you love to touch, and the places where you feel most at ease.

Observing these things is a small exercise in mindfulness, like tuning in to your inner self through your home.

Because the energy that nourishes you is the same one that should flow through your spaces.

Seek inspiration mindfully

We see stunning images everywhere — Pinterest, Instagram, and design magazines.

Yet if we don’t learn to filter them, they can make us feel even more confused.

Here’s a simple trick: don’t just save the photos you like — save the ones that make you feel good.

Then look at them again carefully and find the common threads.

Which colors appear most often? Are there recurring materials? Are the lines soft or geometric?

Does the overall mood feel calm, elegant, or lively?

These recurring elements hold the key to your personal decorating style.

You can also create a mood board — digital or physical — gathering images, fabrics, colors, and words that evoke the emotions you want to live in your home.

It’s an exercise I often recommend because it helps you clarify what truly represents you and keeps you from getting lost among too many ideas.

Mix, but with balance

There’s no rule saying you must stick to one style only.

Personalities rarely have a single shade — and your home, as their extension, is no exception.

You can combine different elements, as long as there’s harmony.

For example, a vintage piece in a modern setting can become a stunning focal point, while a classic home with a touch of industrial detail gains contrast and character.

The key is balance — in colors, materials, and proportions.

If everything stands out, nothing truly does.

If everything is neutral, the space risks feeling flat.

Play with differences, but always leave room for a “visual pause,” just like in a melody.

And remember: there are no wrong combinations if everything you choose makes you feel good.

The only mistake is forcing yourself to like something that doesn’t resonate with your energy.

Let your home speak about you

What makes a space truly yours isn’t perfectly coordinated furniture, but the details that tell your story.

A painting found during a trip, a vase gifted by a friend, a book left on the coffee table — these small traces make a home feel alive and authentic.

Objects filled with meaning carry positive energy because they hold memories, emotions, and fragments of life.

From a holistic perspective, they are real “energy anchors”: every time you see them, they remind you of who you are and what you love.

Even a minimalist home can feel warm and welcoming when enriched with personal touches that reflect your essence.

You don’t need much — just one thoughtful detail, chosen with your heart.

Let your style evolve

As you grow, change, and transform, so should your home.

Style isn’t static; it’s a living, evolving journey.

Maybe years ago you loved cool tones and strict order, but now you crave softness, color, and freedom.

That’s perfectly natural — your home is your mirror, and it grows with you.

Take time once in a while to listen to it.

Is there something that no longer feels like you?

A room that seems tired, or a color that weighs you down?

These are signs that your energy needs renewal.

Sometimes a small change is enough: moving furniture, adding a plant, a new fabric, or warmer lighting.

Renewing doesn’t mean throwing away — it means making space for something new, inside and out.

In conclusion

Finding your personal decorating style is a journey of self-awareness, not a purely aesthetic exercise.

It’s about listening to your emotions, noticing what makes you feel good, and translating it into shapes, colors, and materials that speak about you.

A home that reflects your energy doesn’t follow rules — it creates them.

And every time you walk in, it welcomes you as only an authentic space can — with harmony, warmth, and presence.

If you feel that your home no longer reflects who you are, or if you’d like to rediscover your style to create a new balance, I can help you with a personalized consultation.

Together, we’ll shape a space that truly tells your story — your essence, your energy, and your way of living.

(Consultations are also available online, as I explain here, especially if we’re far away!)

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Feng Shui at home: harmony and well-being, room by room

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Little Feng Shui tips to use at home.

When we step into a home, we don’t just see walls, furniture, and objects.

We immediately sense an atmosphere—an invisible energy that can either soothe us or make us feel tense.

That feeling isn’t random: it depends on how spaces are arranged, the colors, the lighting, and even the way we use each room every day.

Feng Shui, an ancient Chinese practice, teaches us how to recognize and harmonize these flows of energy.

It’s not about drastic makeovers or rigid rules, but about learning to listen to our spaces and transform them into places that truly support those who live there.

Today, I’d like to guide you on a little journey through your home, room by room, to discover how Feng Shui can make it not only more beautiful but also more welcoming and balanced.

– The entryway: the door of energy

Imagine the entryway as your home’s mouth: it’s where all the energy flows in.

That’s why it’s so important to keep it well-maintained and free of obstacles.

A clean, uncluttered, and bright space allows Chi—the vital energy—to flow without blockages.

If shoes, coats, or delivery boxes pile up by the door, the first impression will be one of chaos and heaviness.

On the other hand, a clear and well-lit entryway greets you with a sense of lightness.

A rug or doormat is more than just practical—it’s a symbolic gesture of welcome, inviting positive energy to flow in.

But be mindful with mirrors: placed directly opposite the door, they can “bounce” the energy back out.

Instead, place them to the side, where they can reflect light without interrupting the flow.

(If you like, you can find more tips for a perfect Feng Shui entryway here!)

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– The living room: a space for connection

From the moment you sit on the sofa, the living room reveals how you connect with others.

It’s where we spend time with family, welcome friends, and relax.

One key detail is the seating arrangement: ideally, create a circle or a “U” shape that encourages conversation and allows you to have the door in sight, even from the side.

Sitting with your back to the entrance can unconsciously trigger a feeling of vulnerability.

Feng Shui encourages us to balance materials: warm surfaces, like wood and soft fabrics, with cooler ones, like glass or metal, to help create harmony.

And don’t forget live plants—they don’t just decorate, they purify the air and bring vitality.

Finally, be mindful of sharp furniture edges.

Sharp edges pointing toward where people sit can create tension (often called “poison arrows”).

If replacing furniture isn’t an option, soften those corners with a plant, a fabric lampshade, or even a strategically placed cushion.

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(credits: lbmdesignstudio.com; Margaret Boatner)

– The kitchen: the heart of the home

The kitchen is where we express daily care most clearly.

It’s where we prepare food, a symbol of nourishment and prosperity.

In Feng Shui, water elements (such as sinks and dishwashers) and fire elements (like stoves and ovens) should be far apart, as they create conflict.

If you can’t separate them, introduce an earth element, a ceramic countertop, a wooden cutting board, or even a decorative object that symbolically acts as a buffer.

Cleanliness and order are essential.

Clear counters and well-maintained burners attract positive energy and abundance, while clutter and mess drain your energy.

Lighting and color also play a considerable role: choose warm tones that encourage conviviality, and use natural light or warm artificial light to make the space inviting.

A window, if you have one, is not just a source of air and light—it’s also a bridge to the outside world.

(credits: @mcgregorhomes; moovdesign.it)

– The bedroom: a refuge for rest

If the living room is about socializing, the bedroom is a sanctuary of intimacy and rest.

Your bed should have its headboard against a solid wall for a sense of security, and a view of the door without being directly in line with it.

This setup helps you feel both protected and in control of the space.

Keep mirrors away from directly facing the bed, since their reflections can interfere with restful sleep.

Place them where they don’t interfere with the sleeping area.

Choose soft colors and natural materials to create a serene atmosphere, and avoid keeping electronic devices near the bed – they generate both energetic and mental disturbances.

(credits: mydomaine.com; livingspaces.com)

– The bathroom: balancing water with lightness

From a Feng Shui perspective, the bathroom can be a weak point, since water—its dominant element—symbolically carries energy away.

A simple daily habit—closing the toilet lid—helps keep Chi, or vital energy, from escaping.

Keep the bathroom door closed as well; this helps prevent energy from draining away.

Introduce wooden elements—a small cabinet, a shelf, or even just an accessory—to balance excess water with stability and warmth.

Ventilation and lighting are also crucial.

Fresh air and natural light keep the energy clean and uplifting, making the bathroom a space of well-being rather than just a utility place.

(credits: Jacqui Turk; Andrea Castrignano)

– The workspace: focus and creativity

An increasing number of homes feature a study or small office, ideal for those working remotely.

This space needs a different type of energy: focused, clear, and productive.

Place the desk in a “command position”—where you can see the door without being directly in line with it.

This arrangement boosts your sense of control and security.

Visual order is key: a cluttered desk brings distraction and mental fog, while a tidy one supports focus!

Adding a plant is always a good idea—it not only oxygenates but also enhances vitality and creativity.

(credits: Iba design Associates; Canva)

– The five elements: the key to balance

At the core of Feng Shui are the five elements: Wood, Fire, Earth, Metal, and Water.

Each represents specific qualities:

Wood: growth, creativity, renewal.

Fire: energy, passion, movement.

Earth: stability, nourishment, grounding.

Metal: order, clarity, structure.

Water: flow, introspection, freshness.

Every room should include all five elements, though in different proportions depending on its purpose.

A bedroom that feels “too cold” might need more wood or earth.

A chaotic kitchen can regain balance with a touch of metal or water.

The art of Feng Shui lies in observing and balancing: if a space feels oppressive, draining, or messy, it often means one element is too dominant—or missing entirely.

(credits: gabrielepoggiali)

In conclusion

When we begin to see our homes through the lens of Feng Shui, we realize that every choice—color, furniture placement, even the habit of tidying up—goes beyond aesthetics.

It reflects our inner world.

A home that breathes, full of light and harmony, helps us regain balance, strength, and serenity.

Likewise, clutter, sharp contrasts, or neglected spaces often mirror our inner struggles.

Taking care of our home, then, means taking care of ourselves.

It is an ongoing dialogue between space and person—a path to well-being built one small gesture at a time: opening a window, choosing a calming color, clearing the entryway.

That is the essence of the book I co-wrote with Dr. Francesca Basile, “Take care of Your home & Take care of Yourself:” the awareness that caring for our environment can become a powerful tool to restore energy, harmony, and lightness within ourselves.

Applying Feng Shui at home does not mean you have to turn everything upside down.

Simple, deliberate changes are often enough to make your home a place of care and balance.

Your home can become an authentic ally for your daily well-being: every time you walk through the door, the energy welcomes you, supports you, and moves with you.

And if you would like some help along the way, I would be happy to guide you—book a consultation!

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The heart of your home: mindful kitchen design tips

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Discover how to do a mindful kitchen design!

The kitchen is more than just a place to cook; it’s the heart of the home.

Here, daily care, nourishment, and presence come together, making it one of the most symbolic and lived-in spaces.

It not only supports our routines but also shapes our physical and emotional well-being.

Yet too often it’s designed with only looks or function in mind, neglecting how it makes us feel.

In this article, I invite you to rediscover the kitchen through mindful design, vital energy, and small daily rituals that bring warmth and balance to your everyday life.

  1. Designing the kitchen mindfully

Design is the first authentic act of love for this space.

Trends may come and go, but a kitchen that truly works for you supports your daily actions, makes you feel at ease, and invites you to be present.

It’s not just about layouts and finishes—it’s about creating a space that nourishes.

Mindful design means listening to your deeper needs and turning them into practical choices.

Here are some essentials:

▸ Ergonomics and flow

Think of the kitchen as a living system: groceries coming in, washing, chopping, cooking, plating, storing.

When each step flows easily, you’ll feel less tired and more present.

Keep tools within reach, avoid awkward movements—every obstacle drains energy.

The classic “work triangle” between sink, stove, and fridge remains effective, but it should adapt to your lifestyle.

▸ Closed and open storage

A mix of spacious cabinets (to keep order) and open shelves (to display what you love) creates balance, warmth, and a sense of rhythm.

▸  Personal touches

A mindful kitchen design should tell your story.

Love herbal teas? Create a corner with cups, jars, and infusions.

Prefer slow breakfasts? Dedicate a cozy spot on the countertop.

Each detail can be a gesture of self-care.

▸  Connection with the rest of the home

If possible, keep your kitchen visually or energetically connected to the other spaces.

Too much separation isolates, too much openness can overwhelm.

Find a balance that helps you feel part of the whole.

  1. The kitchen as a mirror of nourishment

A cluttered, poorly lit kitchen full of unused objects can unconsciously distance us from ourselves.

Cooking should feel like a daily act of love, not a task to rush through.

Caring for the kitchen is like restoring balance in the way we nourish ourselves—and how we treat ourselves.

Bringing energy back into this space becomes a small ritual of reconnection, a way of saying: “I deserve to feel well, every day.”

  1. Energetic decluttering: clear the excess, welcome vitality

Decluttering is more than visual order—it’s about freeing stagnant energy.

A cluttered kitchen drains your mental energy and slows your every move.

Start by making room:

– Let go of broken or unused items.

– Check pantry dates.

– Empty and reorganize drawers in a way that works for you.

– Keep only daily essentials on the countertop.

Your eyes need space to “breathe.”

A tidy spice drawer, a neat pantry, or a small breakfast corner can calm the mind, spark joy in cooking, and make daily gestures smoother—aligned with Feng Shui principles.

Now and then, ask yourself:

“Does this kitchen make me want to prepare something good?”

If not, it’s time to clear space for new energy.

  1. Colors, materials, and sensations: cooking with all the senses

The kitchen is deeply sensory: you cut, touch, smell, taste, and listen.

Enhance this aspect!

Warm earthy tones (beige, sand, brick, sage green) encourage appetite and conviviality.

Natural materials such as wood, linen, and cork add warmth and simplicity.

Pair them with textured ceramics or stone-look counters to provide grounding and comfort.

Add small touches: a potted herb, a jar of your favorite tea, a beautiful mug for mornings.

These details awaken the senses, transforming the kitchen into a place that feels good.

  1. Lighting: function and atmosphere

Light shapes our energy, our mood, and our desire to stay in the kitchen.

Maximize natural light: a window here is not just for beauty, it’s vital energy, a bridge to the outdoors, a boost to well-being.

Use sheer curtains and open the window in the morning to let in air and light.

They’re the first ingredients for a good mood.

For artificial lighting, combine two layers:

– Task lighting for precision (worktop, sink, stove).

Choose clear, direct light, but avoid cold tones that feel clinical.

Neutral or warm light creates intimacy and comfort.

– Mood lighting elsewhere: a table lamp, a row of fairy lights, a candle.

At night, softer light helps you slow down and makes the kitchen feel intimate.

  1. The value of presence: cooking slowly

You don’t need to be a chef or spend hours creating elaborate dishes.

Even preparing a simple tea with care can be a ritual of well-being.

Reclaim the slow gestures of chopping, stirring, plating; they can be meditative.

When you cook, try to:

– Play music you love

– Breathe as you cut

– Use your hands with gratitude

– Serve with beauty, even if it’s just for yourself

See the time spent in the kitchen as sacred.

It stops being only functional and becomes a space of connection—with food, your day, your loved ones, and yourself.

  1. Small daily rituals in the kitchen

– Morning ritual

Open the window, welcome new light and air

Prepare a warm drink slowly

Eat something simple and good, without your phone

Inhale, exhale, give thanks

– Evening ritual

Tidy up calmly, maybe with soft music

Light a candle or diffuser

Prepare a herbal tea to close the day

If you cook, treat it as a gift to yourself

These small gestures shift the vibration of your space—and your own.

Conclusion

A kitchen designed with love, lived with presence, and freed from excess can become a pure source of daily support.

It’s not just about aesthetics or functionality—it’s an act of care for yourself and your energy.

If your kitchen feels constricting, exhausting, or disconnected from you, remember: transformation is possible without starting from scratch.

Sometimes all it takes is a fresh perspective—and love.

And if you’d like to do a mindful kitchen design together, I’ll be happy to guide you. Book a consultation!

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The bathroom as a sanctuary: here’s how to transform it into a spa

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The bathroom as a spa? Here’s how to do it!

Many consider the bathroom one of the most practical spaces in the home.

It is where you wash up, get ready, and move on with your day.

But if you think about it, it is also where you spend moments alone, taking care of your body.

It is where your day begins—and where it ends.

It is also a place where you can release tension, let go of stress, and take a deep breath.

So why not turn it into a true sanctuary?

Even the smallest bathroom—even one without windows or full of outdated tiles—can become your personal spa, a quiet place where you can recharge, reconnect, and reset.

Let’s explore how to create that, step by step.

Water: the element of renewal and energy

Water doesn’t just clean your skin.

It holds powerful symbolism: it purifies, dissolves tension, and restores clarity.

Even something as simple as rinsing your face can become a moment of intention and care.

All it takes is intention, a conscious breath, and your full presence.

Close your eyes and imagine the water washing away not just dirt but tension, mental clutter, and emotional heaviness.

That is what makes a bathroom “holistic”: merging action with meaning.

Making the ordinary feel sacred.

aqua significato spa

(credits: canva)

Declutter and simplify: create space to breathe

Crowded shelves, overflowing baskets, and mismatched products can turn your bathroom into a source of visual and mental stress.

But an organized, peaceful space? It soothes you instantly.

Start small: keep only the essentials visible, store what you don’t use daily, and toss duplicates.

Use a beautiful basket for towels, a small tray for your favorite products, and a cabinet that’s easy to keep neat.

Just like in life, less is more—when what remains is chosen thoughtfully.

bagno ordinato

(credits: oldbrandnew.com; group-hadara.com)

Colors and materials: bring nature inside

To create a calm, spa-like feeling, go for soft, natural tones and textures.

Bathrooms tend to lean white, but you can warm things up with soft beige, warm gray, sage green, or creamy ivory.

Avoid colors that are too bright or cold: your bathroom is not a gym—it’s a retreat.

Natural materials also help: a cotton bath mat, a bamboo or wicker basket, a wood shelf, and a linen curtain.

Each choice contributes to a space that reflects serenity and supports your well-being.

bagno spa

(credits: kylandkara.com; amazon)

Lighting that sets the mood

Lighting makes a huge difference.

If you’re lucky enough to have a window, embrace natural light with light fabrics and reflective surfaces.

But if your bathroom is windowless, enhance the ambiance with thoughtful lighting and decor. (If you want to know more about windowless’ bathroom, I discuss about it here)

Choose warm-toned bulbs (2700–3000 kelvin) and place light sources at lower levels, such as little lamps, candles, and soft accent lighting.

Mirrors help bounce the light and make the space feel bigger.

Consider round or oval shapes—they soften the room and relax the mind.

(credits: ph Michael J. Lee; behance)

Scent: the invisible wellness tool

The perfume is powerful.

One smell can shift the entire mood of a space—and of your energy.

Here are some simple ideas:

– A diffuser with essential oils (lavender, sweet orange, eucalyptus, ylang ylang)
– A natural room spray
– Artisan soaps or bath salts
– A bundle of dried herbs or a small satchel of lavender

Choose scents that make you feel calm and uplifted.

Remember: your body responds to the environment even before you realize it.

Let scent speak to your nervous system in a gentle, loving way.

(credits: residencemagazine.se; canva)

Tiny actions that become rituals

Everyday tasks can become acts of self-love, especially in your bathroom.

Create a mini routine that brings you back to yourself, even in just a few minutes:

– Dry brushing before your shower (boosts circulation and energy flow)
– Massaging your body with natural oil after a shower (nourishes the skin and calms the mind)
– Conscious breathing under the water
– A kind word to your reflection
– An inspiring word written on your mirror

When your actions become rituals, they create a rhythm, a connection.

A deeper awareness of what your body needs.

gesti spa

(credits: canva)

Holistic details: let spirit and space meet

Yes, even your bathroom can support your energy — through grounding details and calming touches

Try adding:

– A stone or crystal (amethyst, rose quartz, tourmaline)
– A small plant (pothos, snake plant, bamboo)
– An inspiring word or mantra on a note
– A natural object like a shell, feather, or twig

Don’t overdo it; just two or three meaningful touches are enough.

They’ll turn your space into something more than functional: a room that holds space for who you are and how you want to feel.

olistico bagno

(credits: @mylittlesho_kingston; canva)

Evening ritual: wash the day away

To end the day with intention, try this simple evening spa ritual:

– Light a candle
– Prepare warm water (shower or bath) and add a few drops of essential oil
– Take three deep breaths and imagine the day melting off you
– Gently massage oil into your skin slowly, mindfully
– Whisper a kind word to your body or give thanks for the day
– Wrap yourself in a soft towel and let the silence settle in

Even just 10 quiet minutes at night can feel like a complete reset.

Final thoughts

The bathroom is the first room you enter in the morning and the last one you leave at night.

It’s the place of transformation. Of care. Of quiet presence.

You don’t need a big or fancy space.

All it takes is a fresh perspective — and the right questions:

How can I care for myself right here, right now?

If you’d like to turn your bathroom into a personal spa corner, I’m here to guide you: book a personalized consultation.

Because even the smallest space can hold considerable peace.

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The wellness bedroom: creating a space for rest and balance

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Creating a wellness bedroom? How to do it?

The bedroom is one of the most intimate and delicate rooms in your home.

It is where we sleep, dream, reconnect with ourselves—and with those we love.

Yet, when we think about furnishing our home, the bedroom often gets overlooked or treated as just a functional or aesthetic space.

But here is the truth: it is where we spend some of the most precious hours of our day—those dedicated to rest and profound renewal.

A bedroom that’s cared for, harmonious, and thoughtfully designed can positively improve your quality of life.

Here is how to turn your bedroom into your wellness sanctuary.

Sleeping well means living better

Sleep isn’t just about shutting down: it is a vital process where your body restores and your mind processes.

If your bedroom feels tense, cluttered, or uninspiring, your rest will suffer.

A mindful bedroom should feel calm, safe, and light.

Avoid visual clutter, excessive décor, or cluttered spaces.

It would be good to avoid having your study in the room, but if you can’t do otherwise, put the PC away (or cover it if it is a desktop).

If possible, avoid putting the television in the bedroom; electronic devices drain energy.

Every choice should answer this simple question: “Does this help me feel good?”

Little tip: if you have a mirror in your bedroom, pay attention to its position.

According to Feng Shui, it should not reflect the person sleeping because the energy would bounce back and forth, disturbing sleep.

Here, too, if you can’t do otherwise, consider covering it at night!

dormire bene camera di benessere

(credits: Salt Design Company; Pure Salt interiors)

Your bed: your energetic anchor

Your bed is the heart of the room, not just for comfort but energetically.

It’s where you recharge every night.

In feng shui, the ideal bed placement is with the headboard against a solid wall (never under a window), with a partial view of the door, but not directly in line with it.

This setup creates a sense of safety and groundedness.

Choose a quality mattress, natural fiber sheets, and cozy textures that pamper you.

Your bed should be visually soothing and emotionally supportive—just looking at it should make you feel exhaling.

Take care of it even when redone: with some cushions and some blankets, always make it inviting!

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(credits: kaylagex.com; mydomaine.com)

Colors that support relaxation

Colors speak directly to your nervous system.

In the bedroom, go for soft, natural, calming tones like:

– sage green

– warm beige

– dusty rose

– powder blue

– light terracotta or taupe

You can also opt for very dark colors, such as brown, blue, and forest green: they give a sense of enveloping embrace and a greater feeling of intimacy (Here, I discuss 4 bedroom color combinations)

If you go for this option, consider balancing it with lighter hues and enhancing its brightness with metallic accents.

Avoid overly bright colors (such as red or lemon yellow) and also very cold or metallic tones.

The right color changes the room’s vibration and helps “turn down the volume” inside your mind.

colore benessere

(credits: tlcinteriors.com.au; Studio Enass)

Lighting and atmosphere: build your cozy nest

Lighting plays a significant role in how you feel.

During the day, maximize natural light using sheer light-colored curtains.

At night, avoid harsh overhead lights.

Use warm-toned bedside lamps, wall sconces, candles, or soft string lights.

Good nighttime lighting helps your body slow down and prepare for rest.

If possible, keep screens out of the room: phones, television, and pc have a blue light that doesn’t help sleep.

Total darkness while sleeping is vital to support deep rest and balance your circadian rhythm.

atmosphere wellness

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Clear space, clear mind

Messy spaces create mental clutter and may negatively impact the quality of sleep.

A room full of random objects, clothes on chairs, or storage under the bed makes the space feel heavy and restless.

Instead, keep things simple: just a few meaningful pieces, free surfaces, and breathing room.

Even empty space has value: it allows fresh energy to flow and creates a sense of lightness and clarity.

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(credits: arch-predmet.com; thespruce.com)

Soul-nurturing details

Some objects bring us instant peace. The bedroom is the perfect place to keep items that nourish you emotionally:

– a meaningful photo

– special keepsake

– a crystal or stone that inspires you

– small plant (like lavender, peace lily, or snake plant)

– a book for quiet moments

The key is not to overdo it—each item should have a reason to be there.

details wellness

(credits: ingredientsldn.com; cocolapinedesign.com)

Scents, sounds, and feelings

Scents matter for a wellness bedroom.

Use a diffuser with relaxing essential oils such as lavender, cedarwood, or sweet orange, or try a natural pillow spray.

Sounds can also be soothing: nature sounds, gentle instrumental music or calming frequencies can help slow your system down and create a peaceful atmosphere.

All your senses should feel nurtured and supported.

That’s what makes a room truly healing.

scents and sound wellness bedroom

(credits: canva)

Two simple rituals to care for yourself

Let me share two rituals that make a real difference in my daily life – I hope they can do the same for you.

  • Evening ritual – “Close the day with gratitude”.

As night falls, dim the lights, turn off all screens, and light a candle.

Sit on your bed or in a quiet corner and reflect on three things you’re grateful for from the day, even small ones.

Take a deep breath in, and as you exhale, imagine releasing all the tension.

Blow out the candle with a peaceful thought.

  • Morning ritual – “Start with intention”

When you wake up, take a moment in silence.

Place your feet on the floor and feel grounded.

Open a window and let in fresh air.

Take a deep breath and ask yourself: “How do I want to feel today?”

You can start your day with a short, inspiring quote or offer yourself a kind thought.

Starting the day with intention sets the tone for everything that follows.

In conclusion

Your bedroom is your sacred space.

A nest, a temple, a retreat.

You don’t need a complete renovation to feel the difference; even small, mindful shifts and loving choices can make a huge impact.

Wellness begins here: in the quality of your space, your energy, and your rest.

I hope you enjoyed this article about a wellness bedroom and found it helpful.

If so, don’t hesitate to share it with someone you think might be interested; I would be honored, and it will help me gain more visibility.

If you’d like to transform your bedroom into a true wellness sanctuary, I’d be honored to assist: book a personalized consultation.

Together, we can ensure that even your quietest moments reflect your style—and support your soul.

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6 Tricks to decorate your home like a Pro!

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Would you love to decorate your home like a Pro? You’re in the right place!

Today, I want to share a few simple tricks you can make your own to elevate the look of your space!

You don’t need to change everything or spend a fortune—sometimes, rearranging what you already have can make a big difference.

It’s all about the little details that truly stand out!

Let’s take a look at a few of them:

– STYLING CONSOLES, SIDEBOARDS, AND BUFFETS

These furniture typically have long, narrow surfaces, and one go-to combo that always looks sophisticated is this: a lamp on one side, a vase on the other, and something in the center—like a bowl, a tray, or a small stack of two or three books.

This setup feels balanced and visually pleasing, even if it’s not perfectly symmetrical.

The variation in height adds some rhythm to the arrangement, and the bowl or tray in the center can also be practical, like a catchall for keys and small items in an entryway.

From this basic setup, you can easily add more elements. And if the console is against a wall, consider hanging or leaning a mirror or some artwork above it.

When creating these kinds of arrangements, it’s essential to play with different shapes, sizes, and heights so the various elements will not compete: they should all complement and enhance one another.

No matter what your decor style is, this styling trick works every time!

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(credits: halfway_wholeistic; Canva)

– USE PRACTICAL AND MULTI-FUNCTIONAL DECOR

It’s important to decorate with pieces that are not just pretty but practical as well!

Think of items that serve a purpose, like decorative boxes or baskets that double as storage or even a stylish chess set that invites people to sit down and play.

Candles are another great example.

Sure, they look great on a shelf or table, but when lit, they create a cozy atmosphere—and if they’re scented, they can make your whole space feel fresh and inviting.

Don’t just display things that look good—mix in pieces that make your home more functional, too!

That chessboard, as we mentioned, isn’t just a pretty object; it encourages connection, play, and quality time together.

And baskets? They’ve been trending for a while for good reason—they add texture and warmth while helping you stay organized.

Always decorate with intention, not just for looks!

decora con elementi funzionali

(credits: white.at.home; mcgeeandco.com)

– GIVE BOOKS THE ATTENTION THEY DESERVE

If you’re a book lover, ensure your books get the spotlight they deserve.

A full bookshelf is fantastic—especially if you have a considerable collection—but try to highlight your favorite or most meaningful books in key areas like the living room.

Create small groupings of 2, 3, or 5 books styled with other decorative objects to make your display feel intentional and curated.

You can stand books upright, stack them horizontally, or even place a small object on top to add height and visual interest.

That works beautifully on shelves and also on consoles or a coffee table.

You can group books by color or size – either coordinating with nearby objects or creating contrast for a more dynamic look.

Da importanza ai libri

(credits: kassavello.com; abigailahern.com)

– ADD PLANTS AND BRANCHES

One of the easiest ways to give your home a polished, designer look is by using plants, especially leafy or flowering branches.

They are incredibly eye-catching, require very little maintenance (perfect even for those without a green thumb!), and if you enjoy walks in parks or woods, they can even be free!

A tall vase filled with long branches instantly draws attention and adds a sophisticated, dynamic touch to any room.

And if you are not into live greenery, there are faux options that look incredibly real, especially branches.

They need even less care, and you can store and swap them out seasonally to change your environments regularly.

If there’s a corner or spot in your home that feels like it’s missing something, that’s the perfect place for a beautiful vase with branches!

plants branches like a pro

(credits: @thomas.melhorn; studio-lifestyle.com)

– PILLOWS AND THROWS

To create a cozy space thoughtfully styled, don’t skip on pillows—and maybe even a beautiful throw blanket on the sofa.

Without them, the space can feel a little flat or uninspired.

As with everything else, the key is composition.

Mix and match different sizes, colors, patterns, and textures.

You don’t need to fill the entire couch—otherwise, no one will know where to sit!

Try grouping pillows in different shapes—for example, two square pillows in diverse sizes paired with a rectangular one.

This variety adds rhythm and movement to the look.

Each pillow should complement the others, not compete with them.

Ensure your pillows are nice and plump, too—they should invite you to sink in and relax.

Don’t forget to include a few throw blankets—drape one over the sofa and maybe keep another folded in a basket nearby.

It’s a simple way to add texture, warmth, and a sense of comfort to the space.

And, of course, the same idea applies to the bedroom.

Even though it’s a more private space, walking into a room and seeing a well-dressed, cozy bed instantly sets a calming tone.

decorate with pillows and throws

(credits: Amber-Interiors; studio-mcgee.com)

– A QUICK TIP

Not everything has to be a focal point.

Sometimes, walking into a room, you can see so many things competing for attention.

In fact, we’re drawn to choosing only standout, unique pieces.

But this can create visual tension, where everything is fighting to be the star.

Instead, sometimes, it’s the simpler, more ordinary pieces that, when placed thoughtfully, truly elevate the space.

If you have a standout piece you love, make it the center of attention.

Let the rest of the room be more neutral so that the unique item gets the spotlight it deserves.

Not everything like a focal point like a pro

(credits: @lisadesignstudio; etsy.com)

I hope you enjoyed this article and found it helpful.

If so, don’t hesitate to share it with someone you think might be interested; I would be honored, and it will help me get known.

If you feel that your home, or any part of it, doesn’t reflect you enough, don’t wait any longer: fall in love with your place again and book your consultancy!

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Minimalism at all costs? Not necessarily!

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Is minimalism the key to a happy life?

I don’t know how social media algorithms work, but lately, I have seen countless profiles and channels promoting minimalism as the ultimate path to fulfillment.

I also notice that minimalism is often mistaken for decluttering!

After thinking about it, I have decided to share my take on the topic.

First, let’s define these two concepts:

– Minimalism is a lifestyle philosophy based on “less is more.”

It promotes owning fewer things and focusing on the essentials.

– Decluttering, on the other hand, is a process based on removing unnecessary, broken, or unwanted items that take up space.

A classic example is clothing in your closet:

– A minimalist might choose to own just a few versatile pieces that can be mixed and matched to create different outfits.

– Someone practicing decluttering might get rid of clothes that no longer fit, are damaged, or are no longer liked, to make room for new ones!

Getting rid of things that are no longer useful or no longer bring joy doesn’t necessarily mean owning less, but it helps create more organized spaces!

The goal is not to own less at all costs but to remove the unnecessary to highlight what is helpful and meaningful.

One should use it to improve spaces and their organization, with the freedom to decide what to eliminate based on one’s lifestyle.

Let me give another example:

You love cooking, but finding the needed tools becomes a hassle because mixed in with things you don’t use.

That probably kills your motivation or at least takes away some of the fun of the process.

If you remove duplicates, broken items, and things you no longer use, you’ll make room for more helpful things and might even optimize your organization.

HAVING LESS VS HAVING USEFUL AND MEANINGFUL THINGS

It’s important to occasionally inspect your spaces and go through your belongings because it allows you to sort through and get rid of what no longer serves a purpose, for one reason or another.

It’s also a great thing energetically: so many accumulated and unused things can create stagnant energy.

Minimalism is often “promoted” because owning less is supposed to bring more mental clarity and promote a simpler, more balanced life by reducing anxiety and stress.

That is undoubtedly true for some, but not for everyone!

Having less doesn’t automatically equate to a happier life; the key is to surround yourself with things that enrich your life.

Instead of focusing on having less, we should focus on having things that serve a helpful purpose and hold meaning.

Things that represent us and make us feel good!

What matters is not the quantity of items we own but their significance.

Let me give another example: you love reading and have a bookshelf full of books.

Many minimalists could suggest removing most of them and switching to e-books to save space.

But if books are important to you, and you love flipping through them, why would you throw them away?

At most, I would suggest giving away books that you didn’t enjoy and will never pick up again.

Or, if you have switched genres (from mystery to science fiction, for instance), you could thin out the books from the genre you no longer read, keeping only the ones you particularly enjoyed.

But this is not about having fewer books; it’s about making space for new ones!

IS HAVING LESS NECESSARY TO HAVE ORDER?

One advantage of minimalism is that cleaning and keeping things organized is undoubtedly more straightforward.

And it’s scientifically proven that living in an organized environment reduces stress.

However, even here, it’s not true that having many things automatically means being disorganized!

With good space organization, everything could be absolutely in its place!

I’ll also digress on organization because it gets talked about a lot, with beautiful solutions that look great but aren’t always practical for everyone!

The example I often use is the kitchen pantry: having a jar for everything is undoubtedly beautiful to see, but it takes time to transfer everything each time you go shopping!

Organization should primarily be practical—if it becomes a nightmare, we’ll quickly give up!

Returning to minimalism, it is not a lifestyle philosophy that works for everyone.

A home with only the essentials might feel lifeless to some.

LISTEN TO YOURSELF

What’s important is listening to ourselves, understanding what makes us feel good, and living surrounded by what we love and what represents us.

It’s also important to acknowledge and embrace personal change and reflect it in the environment we live in, letting go of things that no longer represent us.

But, I repeat, not so much to have less, but to make space for what truly represents us now!

To conclude, just as it is harmful to decorate according to current trends in styles and colors, it is equally detrimental to follow those trends when it comes to life philosophy.

There is no right or wrong—there is you and what’s right or wrong for you.

If it is not for you, following minimalism at all costs might have the opposite effect and cause more stress instead of bringing well-being!

So, you don’t have to get rid of half your house—become aware of what you have and keep what makes you feel good!

I hope you enjoyed this article and found it helpful.

If so, don’t hesitate to share it with someone you think might be interested; I would be honored, and it will help me get known.

If you feel that your home, or any part of it, doesn’t reflect you enough, don’t wait any longer: fall in love with your place again and book your consultancy!

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